Can God Trust You With Suffering?
“I will show him how much he must suffer for my name.”
We can rejoice that God does not do things at random:
Like an archer who wounds at random is one who hires a fool or any passer-by.
God, omniscient, knows all things, and has a plan that is coming to fruition. He carefully selects people for what He wants them to do. He said the following of King David:
“After removing Saul, he made David their king. God testified concerning him: ‘I have found David son of Jesse, a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.'”
Many people were called by God for different purposes. Some were to lead God’s people as judges, prophets, or kings. Others were called to be intercessors, such as Esther. Still others were called to discipline the Israelites through conquering them and enslaving them. In every case, it was God who called them for His specific purpose, in His specific timing, for His greater glory.
God has purpose in everything that He does. God does not waste any opportunity. What appears to us to be random sequences of events are actually the carefully placed trellis that leads those who climb up it to where God wants and needs them to be. We are but a mist, here today, and gone tomorrow. We do not have the luxury of divine perspective with regards to long periods of time, because the average life span of a human being is seventy years, eighty if God is gracious. We are unable to see the intertwining connectivity of timing and events, and to see the tendrils of connectedness between seemingly unrelated events and how and where they will intersect with one another in a tsunami of repercussions.
In all things, God has specific purposes for what He has called us. Each of us are to play a part in it. Paul likens this to being parts in a body, each one with unique features but that are part of a greater whole, contributing to or inhibiting the growth and health of the whole. In everything, there is purpose. God places purpose in His creation to reveal to us that He is full of purpose, and that we are to play a part in the purposes of God.
One of the most difficult, yet needed, purposes for God’s plan is people who have been chosen to be examples. Some have been chosen by God to be examples of what is good. Others have been chosen to be examples of what is not good.
For example, Able, the son of Adam and Eve, was chosen as an example of what we should do because he made the right offering before God. Conversely, Cain, another son of Adam and Eve, was chosen as an example of what we should not do because of his offering before God, and his subsequent actions in regards to his offering’s rejection by God.
We need to keep in mind that the student is not above the teacher. And Jesus Christ, the very best example that the Lord God Almighty could have sent to us experienced divine hardship on a scale that none of us can even comprehend. He suffered and experienced great hardship throughout His life, but always with the attitude that God the Father had purpose in His hardship, and that in being yielded to the Holy Spirit, His life would glorify God.
One of the most difficult hardships to be given by God is the hardship of suffering.
No one likes to suffer (unless they are mentally deranged). Suffering produces pain in our lives, and makes our lives so difficult that we can barely function. At times, suffering can be so severe that we are incapacitated by it, and truly cannot even function. Ask a person who is recovering from ninety percent of their skin being burned off in a fire if they are able to function. The answer is obvious – until they are healed, they cannot.
God called His One and Only Son, Jesus Christ, to ultimate suffering for us. As payment for our sins, not only was the burden of our sins – every sin that every human being ever committed past, present, and future – laid upon his shoulders as He hung on the cross at Calvary, God withdrew His presence from Him, and He experienced complete and total separation from the presence, provision, and protection of God in complete and total isolation with that burden placed upon Him in ultimate pain and agony. Let it never be said that our salvation is free; it is freely given to us, but the cost was unimaginable.
Sometimes people are called to severe emotional suffering. They have survived rape, torture, abuse, war, and other unspeakable circumstances. The scars of these events will affect them for ages to come. But they have been called as witnesses to the power, grace and glory of God as He leads them out of the bondage that such devastation has caused.
Sometimes people are called to severe physical affliction. Most people have experienced some type of physical affliction, whether it is sickness or a broken bone. But God has called some to suffer, not for days, months, or even years, but DECADES of life with pain that would cause the average person to curl up into a fetal position in the corner and bemoan their life (take a look at the life of Job for better clarification on this). Ask people who have trigeminal neuralgia what it is like to live where, possibly every few seconds, or every second, it feels like someone is striking your face with the full swing of a baseball bat. This particular affliction is also called “the suicide disease” because people would rather take their own life than live with the consequences of it.
In some cases, such as Lyme’s disease, it can not only be a painful, life-sucking, energy-draining, body-wasting disease, it can cause great misery. Pain can be medicated away, even with morphine drips. But misery is in an entirely different category. Being in a state of extreme misery for any extended period of time will have a person begging God to take their life. And when the pain and the misery go on day after day, year after year, DECADE AFTER DECADE, and the person is a disciple of Jesus Christ, whom it appears God has forsaken in their disease and time of need, what are they to do?
God has called these particular people to suffering as example to others. Suffering (and the hardship that comes with it) produces character, and character produces hope. Hope, in the sense that the Bible uses the word, is not wishful thinking, but rather a reasoned and sound expectation that some future event will occur. In this, disciples of Christ have hope that God will work all things to good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. The purpose is to trust that Almighty God is sovereign, that He has a plan, that He has not forsaken those who suffer hardship, and be an example to others that in their pain and hardship, God is real and is able to get them through their trials as well.
When these great saints of God are called to severe suffering, and show complete and total trust through it, it is a powerful message to those who do not believe in God that there must be something that is helping those who are suffering to believe. It is evident to most people who, in light of this type of suffering, there is no circumstance in the world that can force a person to believe that their suffering has purpose and is worth enduring apart from the sovereign grace and power of Almighty God.
Total trust in God yields great fruit, both in the life of the one suffering, and in the example provided to those who need an example to continue on in their own difficulties. God loves it when we trust Him through these difficulties. David spoke of this in Psalm 23:
The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the darkest valley,
I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
The trust goes two ways. We are to trust God, because He and He alone is completely trustworthy. But God also trusts us. To those whom He has placed the terrible burden of suffering, He trusts them to properly display that trust right back at Him. The more hardship God brings into your life – and that which is NOT caused by your own sin, actions, or as consequences of your life choices – the more that he is trusting you for something great.
There is a story that goes something like this:
A man was at a lumberyard watching the lumberjacks move mighty trees from the forest down the river to where they would be sawn for wood. At a junction in the river, there was a lumberjack who, every now and then, would direct one of the large trees floating in the water down a smaller path of the river. There appeared to be no difference in the appearance of the trees, so this seemed odd to the man. The man then asked the lumberjack directing these trees down the river what he was doing.
The lumberjack told the man the trees he was directing down the smaller path were from the very top of the mountain. They received the most abuse from the weather, and they were constantly buffeted by the wind, rain, and snow. These mighty trees looked like the others, but because of the abuse they took, along with the fact that they had not broken in the process, were of exceptional quality. The wood had a much finer grain, and when used by carpenters, made the very finest furniture and brought the highest price on the market. They were destined to be used by the most skilled artisans in the land for the most sought after projects, and were to be displayed in the most coveted of places because of the beauty that grew in them due to the hardship of the weather.
And just as the trees in this story brought praise to the artisans that used them with their great skill, so will the hardship in our lives be used by God to bring Him the maximum amount of glory, and be useful for displaying His craftsmanship and character.
The end result of everything that God has done in the past, is doing now, and will do in the future, is to bring glory to Himself. He and He alone is worthy of all glory, honor, praise, power, dominion, and strength. He alone is The Great I AM, providing for our every need, displaying His love and infinite power to all who would take notice.
When a person is willing to be used by God for this purpose, God will use them mightily in ministry and to display His glory. There is no greater honor than to be used by God in this way, as Jesus Christ demonstrated to us on the cross at Calvary. But are we willing to go through the difficulty and hardship that is required to bring about the changes necessary to properly display what God has planned in His heart for us to show the world?
A Qualifying Question
Let’s ask a question: Am I willing to allow God to bring hardship and suffering in my life to fulfill His plans and purposes for me?
A short prayer of preparation:
Father in Heaven, Your word is perfect, and Your will and character are perfect as well. You have shown throughout Your word that You can be trusted with everything, for You are perfect in every way. Father, help me to endure suffering and hardship as discipline. Help me to gain Your perspective on my circumstances so that I may be willing to be used by You for the calling that You have placed upon my life. Help me to be faithful to You throughout the process so that during the trials, and when I come out on the other side, You will be shown rightly to all who watch. Guard my heart against bitterness through the process, and fill me with Your peace and power that all things You have planned would come to pass. This I ask in the precious name of our Savior, Jesus Christ, Amen.